Reminiscing…
Just went to homestarrunner.com again...haven't been there for ages. It's still funny. I just don't have as much time to waste, so there's no chance I'll ever get caught up on Strong Bad emails.
This just makes me think about all the good stuff from college and high school that I've mostly forgotten about. It's always fun to pop in one of those albums you just haven't listened to for a while, or watch a movie that used to be one of your favorites. I put on some Zao the other day and couldn't believe how great they were even twelvebyears ago (and how little metal music has really changed in that time). The same goes for MxPx (although punk just isn't what it used to be).
Even reading over Bible verses I haven't read for a while brings new depth and meaning to things I thought I understood completely.
Aging may be one of the most important processes we go through in life, especially if we're willing to continue to look back and remember and rethink what we once took for granted. It may be one of the hardest lessons in life as well, mostly because it's not going to happen all at once, even though you'll realize you've changed all at once. Scary stuff.
I guess my point is this: don't ever forget where you started. You can leave it behind, you can stuff it away in a box, you can eliminate the traces of the things that once terrified or berated you, but forgetting them is saying that you refuse to learn from yourself. And that's a huge mistake.
Google Music
Thanks to my bro-in-law Chris, I now have Google Music Beta on my phone. It is awesome! Totally stoked about having all my music from home available anywhere. I've been looking for a solution for a while now with no easy answer found, but this might just be what I've wanted. Now I'm going to have to figure out if I can share my music with the NetFlixFinds forum through my Google Music account...!
Being Sick
...is not fun. I really hate it. Really. Grayson came home with a cold and an ear infection from the first week at daycare. Go figure. Of course, he couldn't keep it to himself, so thus I am now on antibiotics for another 11 days yet. Ear aches, headaches, soar throat, a disobedient uvula (that's the dangly thing between your tonsils), and a stuffy head like no other. Sudafed helps, though!
With all the madness of summer over, it looks like we're into the fall madness season. Izzy is patiently waiting in mommy's tummy, but hopefully she'll make her move sooner rather than later. We're rather tired of the waiting game and are looking forward to her arriving. Hurry up, girlie!
On the work front, the bands and choirs are getting into the swing of things at the school. In fact, we had our first pep band already (face-melting volume, might I add!), and the choir's starting to sing the national anthem mighty pretty. Some days it's hard to be sure that your kids will survive a long-term substitute, but I think they'll be just fine this year. At the church, it sounds like we're rebadging our service and our praise band a bit...seems a former member had trademarked the name and now is respectfully asking us not to use it any longer. Not a bad plan, since we're a far cry from the original group (18 years ago it was something like a gospel choir, from what I can piece together from other members' descriptions). She was the last founding member, so obviously it's time for a change. I'm up for any churchy name suggestions!
Weather has finally taken a turn for the better around here. It's refreshing to step outside and not feel like you're walking into a tropical rainforest. I prefer the fall weather by a long shot, and it's great for Lifelight, which is now in full swing. We didn't get to go to Relient K last night, but to be honest, it's hard for us to stay up until 10:30 for anything anymore. We. Are. Old. We're hoping to get there today and watch a few of the other awesome bands they have lined up.
Much love to the few readers I have. Most of you are my closest friends, and I have not spent enough time with you lately. Hoping we get a little more time to chill together. I'm feeling some jam sessions and golf in the not-so-distant future if at all possible!
A Little Picture of Grayson

On his first "free range" trip to Sertoma Butterfly House, my son decided to rest a bit on the path. Of course when he saw the camera, he hammed it up a bit.
The Sioux Empire…for Kids
Becoming a dad means many learning experiences, not the least of which is finding creative ways to keep your kid's hands out of the way during diaper changes. Yes, there are plenty less pleasant lessons, but there are also some incredible discoveries that come with this life-changing stage. I'm personally a huge fan of finding new places to go for my son Gray. Here are a couple of my favorites in and near Sioux Falls:
The Sertoma Butterfly House (about $40 for a 1-year family membership) - Sioux Falls
A great cool day or hot day activity, the Butterfly House raises hundreds of tropical butterflies in an indoor climate controlled "flight room." Very relaxing, but even more beautiful. Today my almost-14-month-old walked through it on his own without incident. But the butterflies aren't the only wildlife you can see. They also have 13 different tanks of tropical fish, including corals, saltwater fish, freshwate fish, starfish, and seahorses. There are also tarantulas, hissing cockroaches, frogs, and lizards. Great place to look, but not great for those who insist upon touching everything. You may get a butterfly to land on you if you're gentle enough!
The Great Plains Zoo (about $80 for a 1-year family membership) - Sioux Falls
If you've lived in or near Sioux Falls for any length of time, you've no doubt heard of the Great Plains Zoo. While it may not compete with bigger zoos in Omaha and Minneapolis, it's certainly nothing to scoff at. The zoo houses rhinos, meerkats, bears, tigers, snow leopards, ostriches, zebras, giraffes, and a petting zoo, just to name a bit of the offerings. It also includes the Delbridge Museum, an indoor taxidermy museum, which includes hundreds of different animal species, a couple aquariums and some learning centers. And if you want to see some of the other animals the Great Plains Zoo doesn't have, the membership offers reciprocal benefits for zoos across the country (including our nearest neighbors and our furthest friends). They're building new exhibits all the time, so it's definitely worth coming back to!
South Dakota Children's Museum (about $90 for a 1-year family membership) - Brookings
Museums are cool, but nothing compares to a kid's museum! This place, housed in an old school building, offers miniaturized and fully-touchable versions of almost anything you could think of--a post office, a coffee shop, a grocery store, even a race car garage! Even the youngest can have a blast here. The water room is incredible, and there's a paint and art center for older kids. Outside you can find a river and small splash park, as well as a dinosaur dig area and full-size animatronic models of a T-Rex and a Velociraptor (which could scare the crap out of many kids!). This is an absolute blast, and it can definitely provide a ton of entertainment for a long day.
I'm going to continue adding to this as I find more, but here's a good start!
Labor Day
It's amazing how quickly a three-day weekend can fly by. Yet it was more relaxing than I could have possibly imagined. We spent two nights at the lake, Gray and all, and enjoyed almost every minute of it. We had almost all of our close friends out there at one point or another (sans David and Melita and Jack). We even had a bonfire and took out the dock, despite the cold, windy, rainy weather. Good food, a new relationship, and plenty of awesome times to end the summer officially.
But, once again, it's bittersweet to see the cabin come to a close. With any hope, though, we'll practically live there next summer. Gray should be able to handle a little more next year (we hope).
To all those with similar Labor Day memories, my heart goes out to you. We all long fir another three months.
Welcome Back, School Year
My first summer as a dad went way too fast. It was awesome being home with Jenn and Baby Gray, but I'm afraid I'm quite spoiled. I miss the time I had with both of them already. This is not to say I'm not excited about the new school year, but it's much more bittersweet than years past.
When your son is sick for most of the summer, you kind of miss out on the normal stuff you used to do without even thinking. You know, like staying at the lake for a night or hanging with friends on Fridays or even just checking email on a regular basis. I've since been able to fall into a more stable routine, but life will just never be the same. But in many ways, this is good.
I have this intense love for my son, one that can't be described or understood unless you're a parent yourself. My friend Dan said it incredibly well: "It's amazing how you go from not knowing this little person to loving them more than you ever thought possible in a split second." That's the absolute truth. It's the most amazing feeling, without a doubt, because you love your wife all the more at the same moment. So, yes, summer flew by and we missed much of what we would normally do, but I wouldn't change it for anything.
As for the school year, my kids are marching and playing better than ever. This is great since we're four days in and have a parade next week already. They've even got a cadence ready (miracle!). I hope the momentum continues...could turn out to be the best year ever.
