Whitcombs.info The sporadic diary of a music educator/web designer/praise leader

16Oct/110

Hmmm…

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What do you think we do too much of around here?

6Sep/110

Reminiscing…

Just went to homestarrunner.com again...haven't been there for ages. It's still funny. I just don't have as much time to waste, so there's no chance I'll ever get caught up on Strong Bad emails.

This just makes me think about all the good stuff from college and high school that I've mostly forgotten about. It's always fun to pop in one of those albums you just haven't listened to for a while, or watch a movie that used to be one of your favorites. I put on some Zao the other day and couldn't believe how great they were even twelvebyears ago (and how little metal music has really changed in that time). The same goes for MxPx (although punk just isn't what it used to be).

Even reading over Bible verses I haven't read for a while brings new depth and meaning to things I thought I understood completely.

Aging may be one of the most important processes we go through in life, especially if we're willing to continue to look back and remember and rethink what we once took for granted. It may be one of the hardest lessons in life as well, mostly because it's not going to happen all at once, even though you'll realize you've changed all at once. Scary stuff.

I guess my point is this: don't ever forget where you started. You can leave it behind, you can stuff it away in a box, you can eliminate the traces of the things that once terrified or berated you, but forgetting them is saying that you refuse to learn from yourself. And that's a huge mistake.

3Sep/110

Google Music

Thanks to my bro-in-law Chris, I now have Google Music Beta on my phone. It is awesome! Totally stoked about having all my music from home available anywhere. I've been looking for a solution for a while now with no easy answer found, but this might just be what I've wanted. Now I'm going to have to figure out if I can share my music with the NetFlixFinds forum through my Google Music account...!

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3Sep/110

Being Sick

...is not fun. I really hate it. Really. Grayson came home with a cold and an ear infection from the first week at daycare. Go figure. Of course, he couldn't keep it to himself, so thus I am now on antibiotics for another 11 days yet. Ear aches, headaches, soar throat, a disobedient uvula (that's the dangly thing between your tonsils), and a stuffy head like no other. Sudafed helps, though!

With all the madness of summer over, it looks like we're into the fall madness season. Izzy is patiently waiting in mommy's tummy, but hopefully she'll make her move sooner rather than later. We're rather tired of the waiting game and are looking forward to her arriving. Hurry up, girlie!

On the work front, the bands and choirs are getting into the swing of things at the school. In fact, we had our first pep band already (face-melting volume, might I add!), and the choir's starting to sing the national anthem mighty pretty. Some days it's hard to be sure that your kids will survive a long-term substitute, but I think they'll be just fine this year. At the church, it sounds like we're rebadging our service and our praise band a bit...seems a former member had trademarked the name and now is respectfully asking us not to use it any longer. Not a bad plan, since we're a far cry from the original group (18 years ago it was something like a gospel choir, from what I can piece together from other members' descriptions). She was the last founding member, so obviously it's time for a change. I'm up for any churchy name suggestions!

Weather has finally taken a turn for the better around here. It's refreshing to step outside and not feel like you're walking into a tropical rainforest. I prefer the fall weather by a long shot, and it's great for Lifelight, which is now in full swing. We didn't get to go to Relient K last night, but to be honest, it's hard for us to stay up until 10:30 for anything anymore. We. Are. Old. We're hoping to get there today and watch a few of the other awesome bands they have lined up.

Much love to the few readers I have. Most of you are my closest friends, and I have not spent enough time with you lately. Hoping we get a little more time to chill together. I'm feeling some jam sessions and golf in the not-so-distant future if at all possible!

12Jul/110

A Little Picture of Grayson

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On his first "free range" trip to Sertoma Butterfly House, my son decided to rest a bit on the path. Of course when he saw the camera, he hammed it up a bit.

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5Jul/110

The Sioux Empire…for Kids

Becoming a dad means many learning experiences, not the least of which is finding creative ways to keep your kid's hands out of the way during diaper changes. Yes, there are plenty less pleasant lessons, but there are also some incredible discoveries that come with this life-changing stage. I'm personally a huge fan of finding new places to go for my son Gray.  Here are a couple of my favorites in and near Sioux Falls:

The Sertoma Butterfly House (about $40 for a 1-year family membership) - Sioux Falls

A great cool day or hot day activity, the Butterfly House raises hundreds of tropical butterflies in an indoor climate controlled "flight room." Very relaxing, but even more beautiful. Today my almost-14-month-old walked through it on his own without incident.  But the butterflies aren't the only wildlife you can see. They also have 13 different tanks of tropical fish, including corals, saltwater fish, freshwate fish, starfish, and seahorses. There are also tarantulas, hissing cockroaches, frogs, and lizards. Great place to look, but not great for those who insist upon touching everything.  You may get a butterfly to land on you if you're gentle enough!

The Great Plains Zoo (about $80 for a 1-year family membership) - Sioux Falls

If you've lived in or near Sioux Falls for any length of time, you've no doubt heard of the Great Plains Zoo.  While it may not compete with bigger zoos in Omaha and Minneapolis, it's certainly nothing to scoff at.  The zoo houses rhinos, meerkats, bears, tigers, snow leopards, ostriches, zebras, giraffes, and a petting zoo, just to name a bit of the offerings.  It also includes the Delbridge Museum, an indoor taxidermy museum, which includes hundreds of different animal species, a couple aquariums and some learning centers. And if you want to see some of the other animals the Great Plains Zoo doesn't have, the membership offers reciprocal benefits for zoos across the country (including our nearest neighbors and our furthest friends). They're building new exhibits all the time, so it's definitely worth coming back to!

South Dakota Children's Museum (about $90 for a 1-year family membership) - Brookings

Museums are cool, but nothing compares to a kid's museum!  This place, housed in an old school building, offers miniaturized and fully-touchable versions of almost anything you could think of--a post office, a coffee shop, a grocery store, even a race car garage!  Even the youngest can have a blast here.  The water room is incredible, and there's a paint and art center for older kids. Outside you can find a river and small splash park, as well as a dinosaur dig area and full-size animatronic models of a T-Rex and a Velociraptor (which could scare the crap out of many kids!).  This is an absolute blast, and it can definitely provide a ton of entertainment for a long day.

I'm going to continue adding to this as I find more, but here's a good start!

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5Mar/110

A Change of Policy…

If you live in South Dakota, then you have no doubt heard about our state's proposed (and thus far accepted) budget balancing plans. Brand new Governor Dennis Daugard set up a plan to universally cut state spending by 10% in order to eliminate a structural deficit in the budget of past years. There are several areas of our state's basic functioning that will be deeply hurt by this proposal, but I find specific concern in cutting education.

There are other states that are facing similar,bif not worse, cuts, but I believe it is our state's responsibility to give our children the best possible chance at success in a place where we have been running below the national average for years already. But how can we achieve this AND eliminate South Dakota's nasty deficit?

This is where my friend Chris has been thinking. His answer: www.raisesdtaxes.com, a site dedicated to debating one of the biggest legislative taboos known to South Dakota.

But here's the thing that we should keep in mind: we, as citizens who have received an education from our state, know how important this opportunity is (I'd go as far as calling it a right, but a recent judicial ruling seems to state otherwise) for our children. This should mean that we would be willing to fund education, even if this means a slight increase in our taxes.

Oh, and this isn't about teacher pay. If you think it'd be cheaper to just hire a full time babysitter, give it a shot. Or if you think we're overcompensated for our work, I'd gladly ask any of you to take one of our spots for a week and see if you feel the same.

6Sep/101

Labor Day

It's amazing how quickly a three-day weekend can fly by. Yet it was more relaxing than I could have possibly imagined. We spent two nights at the lake, Gray and all, and enjoyed almost every minute of it. We had almost all of our close friends out there at one point or another (sans David and Melita and Jack). We even had a bonfire and took out the dock, despite the cold, windy, rainy weather. Good food, a new relationship, and plenty of awesome times to end the summer officially.

But, once again, it's bittersweet to see the cabin come to a close. With any hope, though, we'll practically live there next summer. Gray should be able to handle a little more next year (we hope).

To all those with similar Labor Day memories, my heart goes out to you. We all long fir another three months.

28Aug/101

Welcome Back, School Year

My first summer as a dad went way too fast. It was awesome being home with Jenn and Baby Gray, but I'm afraid I'm quite spoiled. I miss the time I had with both of them already. This is not to say I'm not excited about the new school year, but it's much more bittersweet than years past.

When your son is sick for most of the summer, you kind of miss out on the normal stuff you used to do without even thinking. You know, like staying at the lake for a night or hanging with friends on Fridays or even just checking email on a regular basis. I've since been able to fall into a more stable routine, but life will just never be the same. But in many ways, this is good.

I have this intense love for my son, one that can't be described or understood unless you're a parent yourself. My friend Dan said it incredibly well: "It's amazing how you go from not knowing this little person to loving them more than you ever thought possible in a split second." That's the absolute truth. It's the most amazing feeling, without a doubt, because you love your wife all the more at the same moment. So, yes, summer flew by and we missed much of what we would normally do, but I wouldn't change it for anything.

As for the school year, my kids are marching and playing better than ever. This is great since we're four days in and have a parade next week already. They've even got a cadence ready (miracle!). I hope the momentum continues...could turn out to be the best year ever.

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20Aug/100

Life Changing Music, Part 2: The High School Years

Ah, what a turbulent time! High school represents a time of both change and permanence--a time when you are able to alter the course of your own history while laying the foundation for the remainder of your life in terms of opinions, beliefs and practices. Simply put, high school is screwed up. Who really decides what they're going to be for the rest of their lives when they're still not legally allowed to make certain key choices about how they manage themselves? Nevertheless, these formative years often provide the core of any individual's basic feelings on any subject, whether it's music, art, literature or philosophy. While my interests expanded somewhat during college, this is where my roots are found. Here's five stellar albums that have defined my opinion of what good music is.

REEL BIG FISH: TURN THE RADIO OFF
We aren't talking advanced physics. We aren't talking complex harmonies. We're simply talking about fun and being cynical and humorous over situations that are out of our control. Girls, politics, the "scene," whatever pisses you off. Reel Big Fish was the first embodiment of this sentiment for me. I had heard them prior to my freshman year ("Keep Your Receipt" EP graced my stereo that summer), but it wasn't until December of 1997 that I was able to locate and purchase this album. I've rebought it once since then due to wear and tear. To this day, I can put in this album and listen almost straight through four or five times before I have to change it. "Sell Out" is a phenomenal nod to corporate idiocy in the record company and those who mindlessly follow it. "Beer" is another classic, reflecting on being dumped and trying to erase the anger (I was a clean-cut kid, so this was more vicarious than anything). But overall, something about this album's upbeat and high-energy sound just caught me. I've liked ska ever since, expanding to bands like Less Than Jake, Five Iron Frenzy, Big D and the Kids Table, Streetlight Manifesto, et al. Each time, I've found more energy and enjoyment out of these people than almost any other form of music. Even if you don't like ska, this album would probably provide at least one song you could jam to.

BEN FOLDS FIVE: THE UNAUTHORIZED BIOGRAPHY OF REINHOLD MESSNER
This is not the first album I had gotten of BFF, but it was probably the most monumental in terms of composition and emotional impact (at least on a personal level). This album is tied closely to a certain relationship of mine that was fairly bitter when all was said and done. Some of the songs represent the glimmers of hope I tried to hold onto, while others flat out force me to abandon the dream in exchange for reality ("Magic" versus "Don't Change Your Plans," for example). However, after much listening, one of the songs that stood out most over time was "Your Most Valuable Possesion." This may have been a starting point for the more experimental music I would later delve into, but at the least it was a great combination of a cool groove and impressively deep thoughts for an answering machine message. Ben Folds still rules, and he has only made himself more ubiquitous through collaborations with other artists, most notably with William Shatner ("Has Been" is incredible!). This one, unlike some other albums that may make this list, is worth an entire beginning-to-end listen.

REFUSED: THE SHAPE OF PUNK TO COME
Amazingly enough, my first run-in with Refused was relatively unmemorable. The second, though, came through MTV, which is even more incredible. The band's "New Noise" absolutely blew me away one night while watching "Rock and Roll: A to Z." It was beyond any measure of intense I had experienced up to that point. Rage Against the Machine was great, as was Chevelle and Tool, but only Zao competed with this band's intensity, and they were more spooky than angry. Refused had true anger to push. Now, their earlier stuff, while still good, was just not as intriguing as "Shape." Nevertheless, it presented them as a highly socio-political act, aiming to destroy capitalism and push for equality of classes and distribution of wealth. I was hooked almost instantly. At this time, I was rather skeptical of the government in the first place, and this only made matters worse. Even though they broke up about 2 years prior to my first listen, their words were still quite poignant. The stand-out track for me was "The Deadly Rhythm," which incorporated jazz into its intro and its breakdown, along with incredibly chaotic beats. But this album, like "Reinhold Messner," is a straight-through listening experience. It's brilliant, inventive, and still totally off-the-wall when compared to other post-hardcore and punk acts. They're very screamy, but not whiny. When I need to be invigorated, this is where I head. It's artistic brilliance, and it was released only a short time before their demise in a basement in the United States (final concert was stopped by the police, to make things even more ironic).

MXPX: LET IT HAPPEN
In the summer of 1998 I met up with Seth Pederson at LTC (Leadership Training Camp, a week-long United Methodist camp in South Dakota). We actually met on the pretense of me playing Jars of Clay's "Flood," but his Reel Big Fish t-shirt caught my attention. We soon learned that we had extremely similar musical tastes, and within only a couple days we had become best friends. After camp, he and I got together and shared music and life stories. One of the bands that came up from his side of the musical sphere was MxPx (an abbreviation for Magnified Plaid). While I had heard Green Day beforehand, I hadn't heard anything quite this fast or chaotic. If memory serves me, Seth played "Slowly Going the Way of the Buffalo" for me, but I couldn't find that album when I went to buy one, so I ended up with the B-side collection "Let it Happen" instead. Here's what I remember of my first listen to this Christian punk group: we were in my bedroom in Madison, and Seth said, "Listen to this!" When he played the first song from the album, I thought it was faster and crazier than anything I had ever heard before that point. In fact, I really didn't like it. Reel Big Fish was much more moderate in its approach, and Green Day was a slower version of this style. But it didn't take many listens before I decided that this band was worth the purchase. "Let it Happen," although only a B-side collection, was a great representation of the band's early and later days, up until probably "Teenage Politics." This album provided the foundation for much of the group's musical style, and many of the songs on it are still favorites of mine ("Swingset Girl" is awesome). Worth every penny of my $12!