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Labor Day

It’s amazing how quickly a three-day weekend can fly by. Yet it was more relaxing than I could have possibly imagined. We spent two nights at the lake, Gray and all, and enjoyed almost every minute of it. We had almost all of our close friends out there at one point or another (sans David and Melita and Jack). We even had a bonfire and took out the dock, despite the cold, windy, rainy weather. Good food, a new relationship, and plenty of awesome times to end the summer officially.

But, once again, it’s bittersweet to see the cabin come to a close. With any hope, though, we’ll practically live there next summer. Gray should be able to handle a little more next year (we hope).

To all those with similar Labor Day memories, my heart goes out to you. We all long fir another three months.

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Welcome Back, School Year

My first summer as a dad went way too fast. It was awesome being home with Jenn and Baby Gray, but I’m afraid I’m quite spoiled. I miss the time I had with both of them already. This is not to say I’m not excited about the new school year, but it’s much more bittersweet than years past.

When your son is sick for most of the summer, you kind of miss out on the normal stuff you used to do without even thinking. You know, like staying at the lake for a night or hanging with friends on Fridays or even just checking email on a regular basis. I’ve since been able to fall into a more stable routine, but life will just never be the same. But in many ways, this is good.

I have this intense love for my son, one that can’t be described or understood unless you’re a parent yourself. My friend Dan said it incredibly well: “It’s amazing how you go from not knowing this little person to loving them more than you ever thought possible in a split second.” That’s the absolute truth. It’s the most amazing feeling, without a doubt, because you love your wife all the more at the same moment. So, yes, summer flew by and we missed much of what we would normally do, but I wouldn’t change it for anything.

As for the school year, my kids are marching and playing better than ever. This is great since we’re four days in and have a parade next week already. They’ve even got a cadence ready (miracle!). I hope the momentum continues…could turn out to be the best year ever.

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A Semi-Seasonal Blog…What’s Wrong with That?

Okay, okay, so for the two or three of you watching this blog, it has been FOREVER since I’ve posted.  Sorry.  I am on Twitter, though, so little updates are available there.  Perhaps I’ll add a link…!

But for those of you who want something to sink their teeth into, I’m afraid I’ve let you down.  So, I’ll try to make a little more out of this in order to provide more complete ideas when the ideas come.

PERSONAL UPDATE: I will soon be a father.  And Jenn and I now own a house.  I am very excited about both of these developments in our lives.  I am 99% sure I’m ready to be a dad, leaving the other 1% for being scared crapless.  I’m sure being a dad is wonderful, but it frightens me that I have a chance to significantly shape a living being’s life, possibly more than any other person or thing in this little human’s life.  Is anyone with me on this?  I hope so…

LESS PERSONAL INFO: I recently had a discussion with my friend David about genre history, definitions, qualities, and a few hundred other issues concerning the development of the music we know today.  I’m thinking about diving into some of these issues and seeing what comes up.  If anyone has any suggestions as to the direction of this particular discussion, please let me know.  I’m really hoping to crank up this particular area in order to give this blog a little more purpose and direction.  What good is a blog if it has no content?

Well, I thank the people that read this, even if it is only occasional.  I’m sure that’s almost all my fault.  I apologize for that.  I hope I can give you a little more in the future.

IN THE WORKS: I’m putting together a list of my most influential albums in my musical experience, breaking it into three distinct periods: middle school and earlier, high school, and college and beyond.  I’m hoping to have the first section done soon.  Maybe.  It’s been sitting a while, but I’m going to try to bring it up to date.  I’m also probably going to do a basic analysis of Christian versus secular music (watch the sparks fly on that one…).  Thanks, David, for giving me some inspiration!

Till we meet again!

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Check out the Updates!

If you haven’t noticed (and there’s no guarantee anyone reads this), I’ve added a few new pages, including pages for my senior recital from college. You can even download the recordings! Check them out, keep them for yourself, enjoy!

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Quick Update and Trying Something New…

So, as you may see by the past dates on this blog, I’ve been rather inactive.  Of course, it’s not for lack of desire.  I’ve been wanting to write, but I just haven’t been taking the time to write.  So, today, I’m trying something new.  Windows Live has just started offering this “Writer” application (available through downloading the newest version of Live Messenger) that allows you to write blogs on your desktop environment.  I’m not sure if it’s really worth the while, but hey, it gives me an excuse to try this out.

Maybe having this added application will keep me mindful of the possibility of blogging more often.  Maybe not…but we’ll have to see!

Maybe there’s some good way to get on track…like a theme or something.  Should I be writing about something specific, or should I just be writing the most random thoughts possible?  I don’t know.  Perhaps someone has some insight or even a suggestion for me.  I like music, but I just don’t spend much time analyzing and writing about it anymore.  That may be a good thing to focus on, especially since the Internet is full of fascinating music.  Well, if you have any good suggestions, just pass them along.  Become a member of my blog, write a post, whatever you feel necessary.  I need some reason to update this sucker!

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An Update on Professional Expectations

So, long ago, I made a post about how disappointed I was when I entered the teaching profession–how cynical, sarcastic and downright apathetic students are. I talked about my disappointment with their attitudes and their efforts. And I mentioned how the whole world was essentially going down the drain. But I need to revise these statements.

Needless to say, I was not in the right place all last year. I found out in about March that God had better things for me to do. That’s when I learned why I was struggling so much to get my students to do anything. At that point, I began looking elsewhere, and Wham! I found a job. So here is my revised reflection on the state of the youth in this nation.

While still naive and somewhat selfish, I have discovered that students who really wish to accomplish something simply do so. Teenagers (and younger) are not little monsters with nothing better to do than play video games. I was wrong about that assumption. They are intelligent and willing to try just about anything with the proper coaxing. I now know that if you are seen in the right light, you can help students achieve amazing goals. And you can do it quickly. It doesn’t take centuries for it to happen–not even decades, years or months. A matter of weeks is all you really need.

Essentially, my conclusion is this: the youth of America are not truly dying. They are living the same lives that I lived when I was in high school (except with cell phones and iPods). They are exploring and discovering, they are wisely choosing to do more than just get by. And even the ones who seem reluctant really do want to make themselves better–they just want to look cool when doing it. All you have to do is disarm them enough and then give them confidence to make up for the possible embarrassment. Give them something to really indulge in. And now I know how that works, and I know what can come of it. Future teachers, don’t give up. Don’t be disheartened when you find yourself deep in fear. That first year is hell, and the sooner it’s over, the better every other year will be.

And if everyone hates you, just remember: it’s not always going to be your town.

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I’m Back!

Alright, so the blog has been down for a while (server changing), and I haven’t been able to post. But now I’m back, so visit again and again to hear all kinds of clever stuff that you’d otherwise not care to read!

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